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    JENNIFER FULWILER
    Five years ago I had never once believed in God, not even as a child. I was a content atheist and thought it was simply obvious that God did not exist. I thought that religion and reason were incompatible, and eventually became vocally anti-Christian. Imagine my surprise to find myself today, just a few years later, a convert to Christianity who loves her faith (my husband and I both entered the Catholic Church in 2007). This is the chronicle of my journey.

    VITALS: I'm 32, have been married for five years, and have four young children: a 4-year-old boy, 3-year-old girl, 1-year-old girl, and another girl born in March 2009.


      Friday, January 09, 2009

      7 Quick Takes Friday (vol. 16)

      --- 1 ---

      OK, I'll just come out and admit it: the 2008 Weblog Awards have been a slight source of anxiety for me this week. I kept calmly remind myself that the purpose of this blog is really not about traffic or awards and that I need to keep focused on just sharing my experiences about where the Lord leads me in my newfound faith. And then, just as I would be feeling prayerfully detached about it all, some loud voice from the back of my mind would interrupt with, "BUT WOULDN'T IT BE COOL TO WIN?!?!?"

      Luckily Fr. Z's massive vote count has helped me give up in bitter defeat overcome the temptation to desire worldly blogging acclaim.

      --- 2 ---

      I heard that the Catholic New Media Celebration is going to be in San Antonio in June this year. I'm there!

      --- 3 ---

      I laugh so hard every time I see this bag of cat food at my mom's house:


      Umm, could I get a little more information about this part right here, the part where we go from slices of juicy beef tenderloin and roasted turkey fresh from the cutting board to the desiccated, amorphous blobs of cat food actually contained in the bag?:


      Maybe my little cat food connoisseur could explain the connection.

      --- 4 ---

      My 32nd birthday is Monday. One thing about having four children in five years is that it makes 32 sound so young. I feel like I've been so busy in the past few years that I should be turning 92!

      --- 5 ---

      In part due to my friend Abigail's inspiring thoughts on attending daily Mass with her three young children, I went to daily Mass today at noon. I was so pleasantly surprised to see that there were about 150 - 200 other people there, especially considering that it's not a major feast day, the other area parishes also offer daily Masses, and this isn't the only Mass today. Even though I felt like I "didn't have time," I'm very glad I went.

      --- 6 ---

      I was going to write more but the girls are here and anxious to tell me about their days, so that's it for now.

      [This was written late Thursday afternoon and scheduled to be published later, in case anyone glanced at the timestamp and wondered what on earth my 10-year-old neighbors are doing over at midnight.]

      --- 7 ---

      I leave you with this thought:


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      Below is a Mr. Linky list if you'd like to add a link to your own 7 Quick Takes post. (1) Make sure the link you submit is to the URL of your post and not your main blog URL. (2) Include a link back here.

      I look forward to reading your posts!


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      49 Comments:

      Blogger Scarlett said...

      Haha! First link, first comment, woohoo!

      That's what happened when you're up until absurd hours crocheting scarves. Isn't that what everyone does at 1 am?

      January 09, 2009 12:18 AM  
      Blogger Scarlett said...

      Okay, I forgot about comment moderation. Maybe I wasn't the first comment after all. Maybe Jen's just sleeping at 1 am, like, oh, everyone else in the world.

      January 09, 2009 12:19 AM  
      Anonymous Irenaeus said...

      Chewbacca on trap set? Y'know, I do feel strangely free, now that all my dreams and goals have been placed in a strange perspective.

      January 09, 2009 1:10 AM  
      Anonymous maggie said...

      Oooh, this was harder than I thought it was going to be. Not so quick! But I so love reading these...

      January 09, 2009 1:12 AM  
      Blogger Carrien said...

      We are almost the exact same age!

      I will be 32 on the 31st.

      Happy birthday!

      January 09, 2009 1:22 AM  
      Blogger Tami Boesiger said...

      I love your relationship with "the girls". How fun.

      Have a great weekend, Jennifer.

      January 09, 2009 2:33 AM  
      Blogger Kim said...

      Oh my gosh, #3 and #7 had me laughing out loud this morning. And I wish I understood Twitter. I lurk around, trying to figure it out, but I just don't get it. Can you explain how you use it in some future post?

      January 09, 2009 5:52 AM  
      Blogger Kate Wicker said...

      You got my vote.

      I heard that about the CNMC, too, and I'm bummed because I doubt with a 3-month-old baby, tight budget, and my husband's work schedule in June (he'll be working nights again like I mention in my quick takes), I'll be able to swing it. It was on home turf last year, so I was there and it was so uplifting and informative. Plus, I absolutely loved meeting some of my fave Catholic bloggers. Would love to meet you someday.

      Daily mass with kids has been something I've struggled with. I used to try and go more, but I found myself getting really frazzled with my youngest who screams (shouts of joy, but screams nonetheless) through the entire service. Most people were kind, but I always seemed to get a few nasty looks. I need to thicken my skin and get back there.

      Preschooler: "C'mon, Mommy! C'mon. "

      Toddler: "Mommmmmyyyyy!!!"

      My wakeup call... :)

      God bless.

      January 09, 2009 7:12 AM  
      Blogger Jen said...

      I just have to say over and over again how much I love this blog. That picture is beyond awesome! LOL!

      January 09, 2009 7:23 AM  
      Blogger Love2Learn Mom said...

      Thanks for hosting this. I've been meaning to give it a try for awhile and I'm finally here! :)

      January 09, 2009 7:29 AM  
      Blogger Heather said...

      I love the awesome poster!

      January 09, 2009 7:58 AM  
      Blogger Trena said...

      Happy Birthday!

      January 09, 2009 8:18 AM  
      Blogger Amy said...

      LOL, love that last one. Makes me feel better about today. :)

      January 09, 2009 8:33 AM  
      Blogger Party of Eight said...

      #7 is so, so, true. Thank you!

      January 09, 2009 8:49 AM  
      Blogger Heather of the EO said...

      That cat food thing is SO true. mmmmm...

      I love your takes. You're hilarious.

      I did my 7 takes for the first time and I LOVED it. This is such a great idea. Thank you!

      January 09, 2009 8:49 AM  
      Blogger Debbie said...

      Hi. Came over from Heather's. Love your blog. No wonder you are winning things. I also love this theme and may jump in next Friday.

      January 09, 2009 8:54 AM  
      Blogger Aubrey said...

      Thanks for starting this meme! I enjoy filling it out, thinking about it during the week, and reading others' posts.

      We also had four children in five years. Whew!

      January 09, 2009 8:55 AM  
      Blogger Multiple Mom T said...

      I started having kids at 32 and finished having #4/5 at 34, so you're quite a bit ahead of me!

      January 09, 2009 8:57 AM  
      Blogger Christine the Soccer Mom said...

      Happy birthday, Jen. If you were nearer, I'd have you and the munchkins over for lunch and cookies. :)

      I'm starting to really enjoy Quick Takes Fridays, even if I don't play every week.

      January 09, 2009 9:04 AM  
      Blogger Mary Poppins NOT said...

      May God grant you many years in peace, health and happiness.

      January 09, 2009 9:09 AM  
      Blogger Nzie said...

      I did it! My first Quick Takes Friday because I finally just decided to get on and make a blog and thank WordPress it made it easy. :) Use a different SN at my own blog - theRosyGardener. :) Thanks for this great idea, Jen! :D I think I even got the linkback right and everything!

      January 09, 2009 9:47 AM  
      Blogger beckygiggles said...

      Finally, I'm back on my quick takes. Due to holidays, sickness, general apathy, I've fallen behind. So glad you keep your's going no matter what! It always makes my Fridays better!

      January 09, 2009 9:51 AM  
      Blogger Laura said...

      Daily mass is very tough with little ones, but I say keep trying! The benefits you will reap will be tremendous. Eventually they get used to going and don't act up EVERY time, maybe only every OTHER time!
      God Bless

      January 09, 2009 10:14 AM  
      Blogger beck'sthree said...

      Thanks for this idea. :)

      January 09, 2009 10:15 AM  
      Anonymous Tres Angelas said...

      Your modesty (and probably a concious effort to avoid the sin of pride) have prevented you from engaging in any self-promotion with respect to the Weblog Awards.

      This is commendable, so the following is addressed to Jennifer's readers and not to Jen:

      This blog is not only a joy to read, but it also has caused me to delve more deeply into my faith, which I too often take for granted. Perhaps you feel the same way.

      More importantly, taken as a whole (comments included), this blog is a fairly impressive body of work, and many of the posts are truly penetrating. I believe that the approach Jennifer takes in her writing -- humorous yet reverant, approachable yet profound -- could well bring many lapsed Catholics and other lost souls into the fold.

      So, I took the liberty of e-mailing a few of my friends, sending links to my favorite posts, as well as the January 4th post on the Weblog Awards, along with a subtle (OK, it wasn't the least bit subtle) suggestion that they cast a vote (or two, or three) for our favorite religious blog.

      Why? Not because the Award is important in itself, but because awareness of this blog and spreading the message found here is a good thing. In fact, it could be THE thing that turns many from the path promoted by Hollywood and Madison Avenue to the path of the righteous. (I hope that doesn't sound too self-righteous.)

      So, fellow Conversion Diary readers, since pretty much everybody in the world has a larger e-mail address book than I, consider spreading the word!

      (BTW, my eldest turns 13 this month. A teenager. I'M OLD.)

      !FELIZ CUMPLEANOS!

      January 09, 2009 10:17 AM  
      Blogger Jennifer @ Conversion Diary said...

      I just have a sec to comment but just wanted to say thank you to Tres Angelas for your kind words about the awards. You are so sweet!

      And thank you to everyone else as well for your kind words and birthday wishes!

      Will write more soon. Chaos to deal with...

      January 09, 2009 10:46 AM  
      Blogger Karen said...

      Wow, I'm REALLY enjoying these! It forces me to think back on my week and then feel guilty for not getting anything done. *sigh*

      (This is a good thing because it motivates me to do better next week!)

      Write From Karen

      January 09, 2009 10:52 AM  
      Blogger Anne Marie said...

      I voted for you Jen!!! Even after I clicked thru on Fr. Dwight's blog. Shhh, don't tell him.

      January 09, 2009 11:17 AM  
      Blogger Diane said...

      I do so enjoy the glimpses into everyone's lives!

      January 09, 2009 11:41 AM  
      Blogger Jessica said...

      That IS awesome. Truly awesome.

      January 09, 2009 11:47 AM  
      Blogger Kerry said...

      The "Awesome" poster reminds me of the opening sequence of KungFu Panda: "His foes would be blinded by overexposure to pure AWESOMENESS!"

      Thanks again for hosting such a fun Mr. Linky!

      January 09, 2009 11:55 AM  
      Blogger Heather said...

      love this!

      January 09, 2009 12:07 PM  
      Blogger Shelly W said...

      Sorry I can't play today, but I've sure enjoyed yours! Have a happy birthday weekend.

      January 09, 2009 12:24 PM  
      Blogger Kristin T. said...

      Regarding #1, congrats on getting so close to the top! I've been having arguments with myself lately about what blogging success looks like and what I should be striving for. I'm nowhere close to a Weblog Award, but I do pay too much attention to numbers--how many visits, how many comments, etc. I just wrote a blog post on the topic, after reading about a small church with a big impact, and being really inspired and humbled. I'm trying to keep it all in perspective, while at the same time wanting to share my understanding of God with as many people as possible. It's a balancing act!

      January 09, 2009 12:38 PM  
      Blogger regan said...

      i REALLY love that last picture. my boys would probably want that painted as a mural on their wall.
      thanks for doing this whole thing. i always read, but this week i think i'll actually participate!

      January 09, 2009 12:38 PM  
      Blogger Kate Wicker said...

      P.S. Had to go tend to the kids before I had a chance to wish you a happy birthday!!!

      --Kate

      January 09, 2009 12:46 PM  
      Blogger Amy Jane (Untangling Tales) said...

      I think the going out (e.g. to daily mass) is for some personalities the perfect "break" in the day to reset to brain and spirit.

      Add that you're focusing (in heart at least) on "things above" and it seems hard to go wrong.

      Kudos for "getting out," I'm still working on that... maybe we'll try for McD's Playland... far less spiritual, but more running around involved and that's good too.

      January 09, 2009 1:23 PM  
      Blogger Hannah said...

      That picture is, indeed, utterly awesome.

      January 09, 2009 1:49 PM  
      Blogger bfarmmom said...

      This was fun!! Thanks!
      Kirsten

      January 09, 2009 1:54 PM  
      Blogger Christine said...

      50 folks already! Wow - you have started quite a sensation with the quick takes. And it's great. Thanks again.

      January 09, 2009 2:12 PM  
      Blogger Aimee said...

      Happy Birthday! My 33rd birthday is on Sunday -- January babies are so awesome ;)

      January 09, 2009 2:48 PM  
      Blogger Angel said...

      Ok, that picture IS really awesome. LOL Caused quite a stir around here.

      January 09, 2009 3:22 PM  
      Blogger Maria said...

      Happy birthday!

      January 09, 2009 5:24 PM  
      Blogger Emily said...

      Just found you. Will be back to read more...

      January 09, 2009 7:08 PM  
      Blogger Nicole said...

      Um...hilarious! As I read #7, my husband is in the living room watching Star Wars on Spike. Awesome!

      January 09, 2009 9:53 PM  
      Blogger Melanie B said...

      Catholic New Media in San Antonio.... Oh I am so there, I thought. And then I looked at the date. I don't think the airlines or my OB are going to let me go a month before my due date. Oh well. :(

      January 10, 2009 11:48 AM  
      Blogger Melanie B said...

      Oh and a very happy birthday to you!

      January 10, 2009 12:14 PM  
      Blogger Ariane said...

      I came across your blog browsing religious blogs but I noticed what you said about wondering how the pictures of the juicy meat get to be the amorphous kibble in a bag of cat food? Good question! The truth is it almost certainly does not come from meat that looks anything like the images of high quality meat shown on packages. In fact it may be from sources we'd rather not think about. (but one piece of kibble is not likely to do any harm to a curious human "kitten") But for a cat eating it as a regular diet, there are potential problems. Cats are "obligate carnivores", made to run on animal-sourced protein and fat. Almost all dry kibble cat food has WAY more carbs than a cat's body is meant to handle.

      I finally learned about feline nutrition when my cat became diabetic, probably partly due to years of a high carb diet. If you are curious about what cats need to eat -- and have a few minutes between all your responsibilities to your 2 legged kids :) -- check out the site of veterinarian Dr. Lisa Pierson, at www.catinfo.org.

      Best wishes to you and yours

      January 11, 2009 11:10 PM  
      Anonymous Tres Angelas said...

      I can just post random, unrelated comments, right?

      From another blogger in another category (Third place, Best Humor Blog):

      January 13, 2009
      I won!
      The votes won't be tallied until tomorrow, of course, but it looks like I received more votes for Best Humor Blog than anybody except a couple of other guys. Woo-hoo!

      Thank you to everyone who voted for me, and congratulations to Josh at The Comics Curmudgeon for the commanding win. He's a funny guy.

      [scattered boos from crowd]

      No, no. No, no. Hold on. I understand that you're disappointed. You worked hard for what you believe in, and I am deeply indebted to you. But this is no time for recriminations. It's time for all Americans to put aside our differences and work together. Only by uniting can we build better humor blogs for our children and our children's children. As for our children's children's children, I haven't really had much time to think about them, but I'm sure they'll figure something out.

      Thank you, and God bless you, and God bless America.

      Posted by Jim Treacher at 02:05 PM

      January 14, 2009 1:39 PM  

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